"In Search of the Elusive Orgasm"

Lori L.Tharps' "In Search of the Elusive Orgasm" really grossed me out. I mean I know it is a real story I just don't think i would feel comfortable sharing information like that to, not only my friends and family like she did, but also publicly which we see in her writing in the Young Wives' tales. I understand where she is coming from when she blames herself and her husband, but I mean it's really no one's fault and you honestly shouldn't risk your marriage because of something like that. I just feel like if it happens, it happens. And sometimes couples expect so much out of the other that they forget about the important things such as love and friendship, etc.